With over four decades in sales, I have found that customers who make balanced brain decisions—those that combine the head and the heart—seem happiest with what they decided. A balanced brain decision is where the customer uses both their emotional (right brain) and analytical (left brain) in balance.

Buyers often regret decisions that are too impulsive (emotional) and then suffer buyers’ remorse. Or they often miss out if they are too analytical (paralysis analysis) and can’t make a decision. Their non-decision becomes a bad decision.

THE ANALYTICAL BRAIN
Your customer’s analytical brain (left hemisphere) is most powerful when it is focused on just three to five criteria. It can handle more variables than that, but with more than five variables, it slows down, and above nine variables it goes into paralysis analysis. Many salespeople unknowingly confuse their customers by giving them too much data. They force customers to “think about it.”  Leaders can step in the same trap by generating too many options for their team.

THE EMOTIONAL BRAIN
The emotional brain is creative and processes a massive amount of data at the nonconscious or intuitive level. Its decision is based on feeling. How does the house feel? How does the decision feel? This is a very important part of the decision.

The analytical brain sets the priorities, criteria, and boundaries around which the decision will be made. This is the context for the decision. Then the emotional brain (right hemisphere) can decide on the content of the decision. A balanced brain decision is a combination of the head and the heart. Here’s the formula for a good balanced brain decision:

• Set the criteria of the three to five most important factors in the decision.

• Within these boundaries, if it feels good, do it! If your customer finds a home that meets the criteria and it feels good, it is probably the right home for them. It’s as simple as that.

NEXT STEPS
Now it is time to apply your knowledge with buyers and sellers. How do you convert knowledge into skill? Practice! You will need to practice these processes with a partner or in a small group. We recommend you meet for at least one hour a week with your partner or skills group and rehearse. You are not yet a Ninja. You’re at the beginning of the Ninja Path.

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Larry Kendall holds a master's degree in Business Administration from Kansas State University and is one of the founding partners of The Group, Inc., a real estate company with two hundred sales associates and six offices in Northern Colorado. He is the creator of Ninja Selling, a sales training system with over fifty thousand graduates in the US, Canada, and Spain. Kendall's mission is to help people bring out the best in themselves and their organizations. He lives in Fort Collins, Colorado with his wife, Pat. Kendall can be found on Twitter and Facebook.  His new book, Ninja Selling, is available on Amazon as well other fine booksellers.